Why don't people understand my vision or believe in my dream?
By Rabbi Shalom Landau.
Rabbi Landau explains that people doubt your dream not because it is impossible, but because it is yours. “Your vision was not sent to your friends. It was sent to you.” And “if your dream fits inside their logic, then it's not big enough to be divine.”
Most dreams, he says, do not die from failure. They die “from too many opinions.” That is why visionaries always look wrong until they are proven right, and why people will sometimes mock you simply because you are early.
He points to Noach. For 120 years everyone laughed at him, until the flood actually came. Noach didn't even respond to the critics. He wasn't crazy, and he wasn't turning his back on people. “He just kept building,” building something before the rain explained it. “Visionaries do not wait for the rain to believe the flood is coming,” he says. “One day, the rain will explain everything you can't explain right now.”
His conclusion: “If you need everyone to understand your ark, you will drown with their approval.”
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In A Soul at Peace: The Building Before the Rain
Going deeper: Rabbi Landau's teaching, level by level
Surface claim
Your vision was sent to you, not to your friends, so it will not fit inside their logic.
Fear, vulnerability, or tension
Most dreams do not die from failure but from too many opinions, and from the need for everyone to understand.
What may be behind it
In A Soul at Peace, Rabbi Landau writes that if every neighbor understood why an ark should be built, it would just be a good human idea, not a command from Hashem.
Deepest human truth
“One day, the rain will explain everything you can't explain right now.” Until then, the work is to keep building.
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