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Why do people really disagree, if not over the facts?

By Rabbi Shalom Landau.

Rabbi Landau teaches that “people never disagree because of missing information. They disagreed because they had different values.” For a long time this was hidden, because convincing arguments were scarce and it looked as if whoever argued best had the facts on his side.

AI exposes it. Now every opinion can be backed by endless, polished reasoning, and still people disagree. “AI exposes something that was mostly hidden before”: the argument was never really the cause of the disagreement.

That, he says, leads to the question the new generation will ask: “Who gave anyone the authority to decide?” When arguments no longer settle anything, people are pushed past them to the deeper question of what is true and who has the right to say so.

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Surface claim

People disagree because of different values, not missing information.

What may be behind it

In A Soul at Peace, Rabbi Landau writes that the mind is not an independent judge but a “lawyer” whose job is to justify what the heart has already decided.

Deepest human truth

When persuasion is everywhere, the question becomes who has the authority to decide.

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