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By Rabbi Shalom Landau.

Open Wide, and I Will Fill It

“I am Hashem, your Lord, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt. Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it.” Opening “Open your mouth, and I will fill it.” That is what the Book of Psalms says: “Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it.” The question is simple. If Hashem wants to give us blessing, why doesn’t He just give it? Why do we have to “open wide”? And what do we have that needs widening? There is a deep secret here, dear young man. It touches something you have probably felt more than once. There is a desire deep inside you for success, for wealth, for plenty. Right away a thought comes: “Maybe this is a flaw in me? Maybe it means I am falling spiritually?” This verse comes and tells you: no. It is exactly the opposite. You Don’t Want the Thing, You Want the Person We need to make a basic distinction. When your inner self wakes up and wants “more,” what does it really want? You think you want the money. You think you want the number in your bank account. But if you look at it honestly, you want something completely different. You want the version of yourself that is able to hold that blessing. You want to be the person with the character, the trust in Hashem, the focus and the faithfulness to receive this good and carry it in holiness. The money is only a mirror. It reflects the “vessel” inside you. What truly longs, again and again, is your soul. It thirsts to become a worthy vessel. Craving and Longing Are Not the Same Be careful: not every wish for wealth is the same. There is craving, and it is empty. It is greed for the thing itself, for the “stuff,” with no inner direction at all. About this kind of desire our Sages said that no one leaves this world with even half of his cravings fulfilled. But there is also longing, and longing is a direction. It is a movement that Hashem plants in a person’s heart. He does not plant it to test him. He plants it to shape him, to prepare him, and to push him to become someone the world can trust with plenty. As our Sages teach in the Talmud: “A person is shown only what comes from the thoughts of his heart.” What rises up in your heart is no accident. There is guidance in it. What you want shows you where you are meant to go. “Open Your Mouth Wide”: Building the Vessel Now we can understand the verse. “Open your mouth wide” is not just a request about something outside you. It is a command to do inner work: widen yourself. Widen your vessel. How? By working on your character traits. By building your faith and your trust in Hashem from the inside. By facing whatever is asked of you so that you can become the person who is able to hold blessing. The Tanya, the classic book of Hasidic thought, explains that for light to be revealed, there must be a vessel. Blessing can only appear inside a vessel that can contain it. And this vessel does not come down from Heaven ready-made. It is built. It is built along the way, through hard work, by widening your mind and your heart. “Open your mouth wide” is the awakening from below. It is your own awakening, the work of widening that you do inside yourself. “And I Will Fill It”: What Comes After Only after that comes “and I will fill it.” The blessing is always there. It is never missing. But it flows only into a vessel that is ready to receive it. When you do the work of widening, Hashem fills it. That is the order, and not the other way around. This is also what Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, author of the Tanya, wrote in one of his letters. Giving charity builds the vessel. Charity is “open wide” in actual practice. It is the act by which you widen yourself beyond the narrow borders of your “I.” In this way you become a vessel worthy of even greater blessing.

Putting It into Practice

The next time you feel that same longing for success, stop for a moment and ask: What in me needs to grow wider so that I can be the person who is able to receive this? That is the real question. Then take one step. It can be in a character trait, in your trust in Hashem, or in a real act of giving. Begin to build the vessel. This is the verse’s call to your life. “Open your mouth wide”: you do the work of widening the vessel. “And I will fill it”: and I will take care of the rest.

Questions and answers

Q: Which verse in Psalms says "Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it"?

Rabbi Landau answers: “I am Hashem, your Lord, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt. Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it.”

Q: What does the verse "I am Hashem your Lord, who brought you up out of Egypt; open your mouth wide and I will fill it" say?

Rabbi Landau answers: “I am Hashem, your Lord, who brought you up out of the land of Egypt. Open your mouth wide, and I will fill it.”

Q: When I want more money, what do I really want, according to Rabbi Landau?

Rabbi Landau answers: We need to make a basic distinction. When your inner self wakes up and wants “more,” what does it really want? You think you want the money. You think you want the number in your bank account. But if you look at it honestly, you want something completely different. You want the version of yourself that is able to hold that blessing. You want to be the person with the character, the trust in Hashem, the focus and the faithfulness to receive this good and carry it in holiness. The money is only a mirror. It reflects the “vessel” inside you. What truly longs, again and again, is your soul. It thirsts to become a worthy vessel.

Q: What is the difference between craving wealth and longing for it in a holy way?

Rabbi Landau answers: Be careful: not every wish for wealth is the same. There is craving, and it is empty. It is greed for the thing itself, for the “stuff,” with no inner direction at all. About this kind of desire our Sages said that no one leaves this world with even half of his cravings fulfilled. But there is also longing, and longing is a direction. It is a movement that Hashem plants in a person’s heart. He does not plant it to test him. He plants it to shape him, to prepare him, and to push him to become someone the world can trust with plenty.

Q: What should I ask myself the next time I feel a strong desire for success?

Rabbi Landau answers: The next time you feel that same longing for success, stop for a moment and ask: What in me needs to grow wider so that I can be the person who is able to receive this? That is the real question. Then take one step. It can be in a character trait, in your trust in Hashem, or in a real act of giving. Begin to build the vessel. This is the verse’s call to your life. “Open your mouth wide”: you do the work of widening the vessel. “And I will fill it”: and I will take care of the rest.

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