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Stop overthinking marriage.

  • By Rabbi Landau
  • Duration: 41 seconds
Stop overthinking marriage.

Rabbi Landau teaches Stop overthinking marriage.

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Stop overthinking marriage.

It’s not about looks.
It’s not about cooking.
It’s not about charm.

There’s only one question that matters:

Is she behind you or in your way?

The Torah says it plainly:
עֵזֶר כְּנֶגְדּוֹ

If she’s your עֵזֶר she strengthens you.
If she’s not, she’s כְּנֶגְדּוֹ, against you.

A woman who respects you,
stands behind you when the world turns on you,
and believes in you when you’re at your lowest...
that’s a wife.

The moment respect is gone,
even if everything else looks perfect,
the marriage is already broken.

Stop asking if she pleases you.
Ask if she has your back.

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