Searching can feel like progress, even when it keeps you from ever choosing.

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Searching can feel like progress, even when it keeps you from ever choosing.

As long as someone “better” might appear tomorrow, the real person in front of you is always competing with someone imaginary.

Marriage begins when comparison ends and choice begins.

הַמֶּלֶךְ בַּשָּׂדֶה

The King is in the field, not in the palace you are still imagining.

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Questions this teaching answers

• Does choosing a spouse mean settling or giving up?
• Why does searching for the perfect spouse keep me from ever choosing one?