Your wife isn't the problem.
- By Rabbi Landau
- Duration: 42 seconds

Rabbi Landau teaches Your wife isn't the problem.
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Your wife isn't the problem.
She's the alarm.
And most men spend their energy
trying to disconnect the smoke alarm
instead of finding the fire.
When she's cold.
When she's sharp.
When she explodes over something small.
Most men think she's being difficult.
But a woman's emotional system is a sensor.
She feels instability long before a man consciously sees it.
Distance.
Weakness.
Lack of direction.
That's what her signal is telling you.
The Torah tells Avraham something fascinating:
כֹּל אֲשֶׁר תֹּאמַר אֵלֶיךָ שָׂרָה שְׁמַע בְּקֹלָהּ
Listen to her voice.
Not just the words.
Because beneath the words there is always a signal.
When a fire alarm goes off at 3AM
you don't argue with the alarm.
You look for the fire.
If you keep fighting the alarm,
you will get burnt in the fire.
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