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Stop looking for a match.

  • By Rabbi Landau
  • Duration: 52 seconds
Stop looking for a match.

Rabbi Landau teaches Stop looking for a match.

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Stop looking for a match.

You’re not shopping for compatibility.
You’re searching for completion.

Everyone asks,
“How do I know if we match?”

Here’s the truth:
I hope you don’t.

Because love doesn’t come from matching,
it comes from merging.

The Torah never says Adam found someone who matched him.
It says:
והיו לבשר אחד
They became one flesh.

Marriage isn’t two people agreeing on everything.
It’s two halves becoming whole.

You’re not looking for someone who thinks like you,
talks like you,
or lives like you.

You’re looking for the part of you that was taken from you.

And when you find it,
stop analyzing the differences.
Because it’s you.

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