Stop thanking your wife like she works for you.
- By Rabbi Landau
- Duration: 45 seconds
Rabbi Landau teaches Stop thanking your wife like she works for you.
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Stop thanking your wife like she works for you.
You’re not married to a maid. You’re married to a queen.
You think you’re being kind — “Thanks for the dinner,” “You cleaned up so nicely,” “The kids looked great today.”
But that’s not love. That’s management.
She didn’t come into your life to do things for you; she came to be something with you.
Rabbi Sholom Landau explains,
“A wife doesn’t want to be appreciated for what she does, she wants to be seen for who she is.”
That’s why Shlomo HaMelech says,
“Eishet chayil mi yimtza… batach bah lev ba’alah.”
You want to reach her heart? Trust her. Let your heart rest in her presence.
So next time, don’t say, “Thanks for the laundry.”
Say, “I love your energy.”
“I feel good when I’m around you.”
“You light up this home just by being in it.”
That’s what she craves — to be seen, to be felt, to be received.
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