“You’re controlling me” can sometimes mean:

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“You’re controlling me” can sometimes mean:

“You’re not doing what I want.”

You call it controlling when your spouse insists.
But what do you call it when you insist?

Two people can fight for the steering wheel while both claim they only want freedom.

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We notice faults much more easily in someone else than in ourselves.

So if your spouse is a controller...
before fighting them, go look in the mirror.

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Questions this teaching answers

• What does it really mean when I tell my spouse they are controlling me?