The more you date, the higher your divorce rate.

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The more you date, the higher your divorce rate.
It's not just a statistic. It’s a truth.
You’re not searching for love. You’re rehearsing disappointment.

In the old days, they met once or twice, shared tea, and built empires of love that lasted seventy years.
Now we go on twenty dates, swipe hundreds of profiles, and still end up alone.

Why? Because the more you “get to know,” the more you think love is information.
But love isn’t knowledge. It’s surrender.

Avraham Avinu didn’t investigate Rivka.
He said, Hashem will send her.
That’s faith. That’s marriage.

So ask your questions, but remember this:
Marriage isn’t built on what you find out.
It’s built on what you let go of.

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Questions this teaching answers

• Does getting to know someone over many dates make for a stronger marriage?
• Why did marriages in earlier generations last after only a few meetings?